Rise....

Darkness closing in...if only he knew a magic trick that could help him get though this...He didn’t count off as he held his breath, there was no point, for he didn’t need to know
when his limit was approaching. Humming in his ears,the last pocket
of air was gone in a flash, fully consumed by the deep sea water, no time to think about that, his heels were made of iron, his back and shoulders made a fine jack for which nails and boards were no match, he could hear a voice telling him to move it, his thighs was unspeakable, that sound, was that nails beginning to give way, his head
was about to burst, he went beyond his limits, to where he smelled gunpowder, and
saw a crowd of thousands out there in the Palace, some worried, others chanting “push
push push,” and beside him, quietly, there was a woman. She was beautiful.
I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. She touched his scar. Breathe with me.
He said something, he didn’t even know what, and with a strength he didn’t
actually possess he pushed.

Is your GirlFriend Manipulative?

To be a wuss is to be as a pussy
She’s sexy. She’s hot. She turns you on more than any woman you’ve ever been with. Are you excited yet? Is there any problem that you can see in the foreseeable future?

In the beginning of the relationship, she does everything for you. She’s cool. You go out with your friends, she doesn’t question it at all. No crazy texts. No psychotic e-mails. Nothing. You start falling for her. You think you’ve met the most incredible woman you’ve ever met in your entire life.

And then all of a sudden, she doesn’t get her way with something. And she starts using those female manipulation tactics. She starts questioning things that she was being so cool about at the beginning. All of a sudden now, she thinks you’re flirting on Facebook. Or she thinks those girls you just added as friends are women that you want to have sex with.

She actually is now trying to control your entire life. Control in a way that you don’t want to be controlled. But yet the sex is so great. She is cool most of the time, but all of a sudden you’re in this relationship with her and things are changing on a daily basis. You notice that if she doesn’t get her way, she becomes accusatory and she becomes downright mean at times. She starts using sex as a bargaining chip. She starts holding out for Coffees, great dinners and other things. She starts talking about the future, but in that future you need to change some of the things that she was so excited about in the beginning.

You know what she’s doing guys? She’s a manipulative girlfriend. She’s a girlfriend that basically loved you for whomever you were, but now decided that she really wants you a different way, and she will not quit until she gets her way.

Oh, she’ll make the sex great. You’ll take her to her favorite restaurant and she’ll give you the best blow job and the best sex you’ve ever had. But then she’ll take it away again the next time she doesn’t get her way.

I’m not into manipulative girlfriends. I’m not into girlfriends that try to control you and de-balls you. As far as I’m concerned, if she liked you from the beginning she should love you more where you’re at now.

Don’t be taken in by a manipulative girlfriend. Don’t be suckered in by some great sex. The bottom line is, if you’re with a manipulative woman, a woman that always wants her way, a woman that is devious and accusatory and jealous over things that don’t even exist, my suggestion to you is to run, to hide and get out of there fast.

After The Breakup

It hurts... time to get over it...
Breakups are never easy. They inevitably mean change, which for some may be easier than others. When you are in a relationship, you become content with the comfort blanket you significant other provides. For those who experience a divorce, it can often seem like “starting fresh” is nearly impossible. No matter how hard one tries, there’s no shortcut to get over the grieving process. The only way to take that first step is to embrace it. At some point or another relationships will experience hardships and to understand that breakups sometimes benefit both parties is to understand that not all “tragedies” are bad. Here are a few tips to help prepare yourself for what is to come.

Release Your Inner Anger

Anger can manifest itself into outrageous things. For some it could be transferred onto those who are closest to them. For others it can be against their past girlfriend for causing pain and hurt. Most however, tend to be angry at themselves. “What could I have done differently?” “What did I do wrong?” and “What could I have done differently?” are all questions that one asks in beginning to rationalize their breakup. The lack of control one experiences during a breakup can cause anger if not more commonly frustration.

Everyone deals with anger differently. The important aspect is to release the anger. If that means joining a gym (which benefits you in more ways than one), screaming as loud as you can, etc you MUST release that lingering anger. This does not mean you call your ex and yell at her. Transferring your anger on anyone (especially your ex) will not help. Even when appropriate (you ex cheats or hurts you) yelling will only highlight the fact that you are in the bitter stage of the break up.

Reframe your mind

It is normal to kick start your brain into thinking how you could have avoided the breakup. It is natural to attempt to make sense of the situation in order to get over the pain. It is even common to play the break up if not the whole relationship in your head until you can “see” where things went wrong. Doing this gives you something to do however it won’t get you anywhere The truth is you may never understand why this happened. The reasons she gave you may not be the actual reasons at all for why the breakup occurred so taking her words literally may not be the best thing.

Whenever you begin to think of her or any situation around her you have to force yourself to STOP and redirect your thoughts into something more productive. Take a deep breathe, notice what is going on around you and focus your energy in proactive situations instead of diving deep in thoughts that are for a lack of better words “DEAD”. There are plenty of girls out there.

I suggest you change the way your brain works. Positive thinking can be very useful. When you get into a habit of positive thinking, positive results will manifest itself in your life. The more positively you push yourself to think the easier it will be to see the positive aspects of any situation (e.g. your breakup).

Listen to Music

According to past and recent research, listening to music is one of the quickest ways to instantly change your mood. Music is very powerful in the sense that it alters parts of your brain that other things can’t. Music is what our emotions sound like so do not underestimate the power it has in getting over a relationship. Singing along will also help due to the release of endorphins.

Change Your Style

Reinvent yourself. Don’t let the breakup consume who you are. Go shopping; get a hair cut, shave, and gear up for the great nights there are to come. Preparing yourself for new women can do wonders for your psyche and it will also assist in helping you build your self-confidence again.

Side Note: Breakups can often rob our self-esteem and confidence, it is important to realize that only you can rebuild this and relying on other women, your friends, etc will result in a temporary fix that will yield bigger issues down the road when the emptiness raises to the surface. You should dictate what builds you up because you are the only person who truly knows how YOU work.

Spend time with different women

Perspective is an amazing concept. Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project stated “both men and women find relationships with women to be more intimate and enjoyable than those with men.” With that said, surround your life with women, of all types and walks of life. DO NOT talk to them about your pains. The past is the past and you must force yourself to move on.

The 3 Letter Principle

Write a letter to your ex, one to the world, and the most important one is to write one to yourself. Keep in mind NONE of these letters will be sent. The idea is to release the emotions that are inside. It doesn’t have to make sense nor be uniform (grammar doesn’t matter either). Write how you feel and explain your emotions of anger, frustration, disappointment, happiness etc

Letter to you ex: Write all the things you wish you could say to her. Say whatever you want and envision you being face to face with her.

Letter to the world: Write a letter to the universe stating all the positive and powerful things you plan on doing from this day forward.

Letter to yourself: Write this letter so that you can get out the person you will become. Write it and describe how you envision yourself being at the best point in your life.

After you are done, throw them out. Avoid reading them, as they will only highlight what you wrote and perhaps even taking what you wrote in. Throw it out and forget it, only after you do this will you see how powerful this is.

Know the Truth

We all take breakups personally. We assume that no one will understand or make us happy like our ex did. The truth is that you will not end up alone. Let me rephrase, you will not end up alone so long as YOU do not want to end up alone. DO not let your age, look, personality blind you of the rich opportunity that lies ahead. These characteristics have no direct correlation to how happy you can be. See yourself happy, visualize it and then seize it knowing that you are ultimately in control of every outcome of your life. Control the situations that you can and forget about the ones that you cannot.

Final Thoughts

Every relationship you experience will undergo a linear phase that will contain a start, middle and an end. Accept this. Even if you never breakup and you spend your entire life with someone, eventually you will see an end (death). Be inspired by this. Know the requirement you have for the next person in your life but also work on becoming a better person. You should push yourself every single day to be better. This with the combination of positive thinking will have you where you want to be very quickly.

Why Sex makes guys healthier.

OK lemme start by sayin HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!! yea!! alrite here's another gem of advice for guys about sex well not just guys even girls who wanna maybe make thier guys healthy if you know what i mean ;)

No.10 Calorie burn

While sex alone may not be enough to create bulging biceps and washboard abs, intercourse definitely gets the blood pumping by raising the heart rate and burning calories. Estimates show that an average session between the sheets can burn 85 to upwards of 200 calories in 30 minutes. If you spent half an hour having sex daily, that could lead to a weight loss of 10 pounds or more over the course of a year. And it’s hopefully more fun than a run on the treadmill.

No.9 Strength training

In addition to burning calories, sex aids in testosterone production, which can strengthen bones and muscles. Testosterone is also responsible for maintaining healthy energy levels, mood, fertility, and sexual desire. So having sex today could help keep your sex drive up down the road. Decreasing testosterone levels, known as andropause or male menopause, can result in a number of side effects including decreased libido, fatigue and depression, among others.

No.8 Cancer prevention

A number of studies show that men who ejaculate on a regular basis are more than 30% less likely to develop prostate cancer. Regular ejaculation, whether from intercourse or masturbation, help flush out the prostate, which may help curb the development of prostate cancer.

No.7 Improved cardiovascular health

Because sex is a good form of exercise, it makes sense that it would positively impact the health of your heart. A study from Queens University shows that men who have sex more than three times a week cut their risk of heart attack and stroke in half. Sex has also been shown to lower blood pressure, which further accounts for the overall positive impact on cardiovascular health.

No.6 Stress relief

The decreased blood pressure that can result from sex could help lower your stress level. Various study participants have been shown to have a smaller rise in blood pressure during stressful situations after sex, as compared to other test subjects. Moreover, sex releases feel-good endorphins that can help lower anxiety. Who doesn’t want to forget about a tough day at the office with a good roll in the hay?

No.6 Stress relief

The decreased blood pressure that can result from sex could help lower your stress level. Various study participants have been shown to have a smaller rise in blood pressure during stressful situations after sex, as compared to other test subjects. Moreover, sex releases feel-good endorphins that can help lower anxiety. Who doesn’t want to forget about a tough day at the office with a good roll in the hay?

No.5 Boosting your immunity

Everyone is looking for ways to keep their immune system strong during this flu season -- one that could potentially be the worst in years. What men may not realize is that regular intercourse increases levels of immunoglobulin A, an antibody known to boost the immune system. Having sex once or twice a week could help ward off colds or the flu.

No.4 Improved intimacy

Right before orgasm a number of endorphins are released and levels of the hormone oxytocin, sometimes referred to as the “love hormone,” surge to five times their normal level. Oxytocin has also been linked to an increased feeling of generosity, and is known to act as a neurotransmitter in the brain, building trust and helping to strengthen bonds.

No.3 Pain relief

In addition to bonding you with your partner, oxytocin, serotonin and other endorphins released during your sexual peak can help alleviate pain associated with common problems like headache or arthritis. Next time you’re suffering from neck pain or a stress headache, try forgoing the Advil and hopping in the sack instead.

No.2 Improved sleep

Oxytocin may sound like the new wonder drug when you consider that research has also shown that the increased levels of the hormone, along with the antidepressant chemical serotonin (which is also released during orgasm) promote deep sleep. Getting a restful night of sleep has been associated with a number of other health benefits, such as maintaining a healthy weight and lowering blood pressure.

No.1 Long-term reproductive health

Just as men need regular physical activity to stay healthy and fit, exercising the penis, by achieving erections, is key to maintaining a healthy sex life for years to come. Men who don’t regularly engage in sexual activity or masturbation are at a greater risk for penile atrophy down the road. Just as they should aim for a full-body workout three times a week, men should try to exercise the penis at least three times a week as a way to help ward off erectile dysfunction or other sexual health issues later in life.

While regular sexual activity is an important part of overall health and well-being in men, many men with health conditions such as diabetes, hypertension and cancer find erectile dysfunction to be an upsetting side effect of their condition. If you’re one of the millions of men who suffer from ED as a side effect of a health condition, don’t lose hope. There are treatment options available that could help you restore sexual function so you can enjoy all the health benefits mentioned here.

...soo enough said :P....
Darkcasanova

SEX application from. :P

Behold, the Sexual Resume! It would be similar to a normal job application except you would be hooked up to a polygraph while you filled it out so you would have to tell the truth, unlike regular ones (74 words per minute, my ass). It might look a little somethin' like this...

Last name: _______________

First name: __________
Cell number: (___) ___-_____

Are you of age 18 or older? Y / N (circle one)

Have you ever had sex with me before? Y / N (circle one); if Yes, when? __/__/__

Have you ever had sex with anyone related to me before? Y / N (circle one); if Yes, when? __/__/__

Have you ever been diagnosed with a Sexually Transmitted Disease? Y / N (circle one); the existence of a diagnosed STD will not constitute an automatic disqualification from this encounter.

Please list your last three sexual encounters, starting with the most recent: _______________________________________
_______________________________________
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Number of total partners: With opposite sex: _____; With same sex: _____

Previous partners' approximate orgasm rate: ___ %

Average duration of sexual encounters: ___ minute(s)

Do you expect me to go downtown? Y / N (circle one)

Can I expect you to go downtown? Y / N (circle one)

Do you: Spit / Swallow (circle one)

What position(s) are you applying for? _____________________

Please list any special skills/techniques you think make you a good candidate for this encounter: ____________________________________

Do you have a reliable source of transportation? Y / N (circle one)

Are you available on holidays? Y / N (circle one)

Males: Length: _____ inches

Females: Boobies: ___ A / B / C / D / DD (circle one)
Implants / Natural (circle one)

Would you prefer cuddling afterwards? Y / N (circle one)

Would you prefer to spend the night? Y / N (circle one)

Would you consider future encounters? Y / N (circle one)



I, _______________, hereby consent to engaging in sexual intercourse with ___________ and understand that the act will be mutual. I also understand that this encounter will be confidental unless stated otherwise in writing by both parties.

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Signature

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Today's Date

Fill them forms out and Start enjoying people!!!
...........DarkCasanova.........

Why looks matters

Even Stewie looks good... with work

Game and confidence are the two most important factors that come into play... but looks do matter, and they matter a lot.

Now I'm not talking natural looks, because when you really think about it... in what way does your god-given looks tell something about who you are?

They DON'T! They were given to you for free, regardless of if they are good or bad... you didn't do a damn thing to earn them, so they do not display your character in any way. Think about this : What if people were given a challenge by god before their birth, and your performance in this challenge directly affected how you would look once you were born. Scoring high would give you good looks, while scoring low would not. If this was the case... then natural looks would be a display of character, but the world doesn't work this way (because I just made that all up)... so natural looks in the real world do not tell women anything about what they are REALLY attracted to...

Modern society has made it easier for "male model" types to get women, but for the first million or so years of our evolution it did not work this way at all. Throughout our history men have been the only sex that would only be attracted by looks, because in reality it was all women had to offer : Better looking mother = better looking kids... bigger tits = more food for your infants, and so on. Women on the other hand, were automatically programmed to search for mates for very different reasons : Smarter man = better chance of survival, stronger man = he can work harder and protect her and the children better, higher social status man = more perks for her family in the community, etc. etc. etc.

Notice the trend there? None of the traits that women are naturally attracted to have anything to do with looks... up until maybe 100 years ago it didn't matter if a guy looked like sloth from the goonies... if he had all of the above he'd be banging the Jessica Albas(yea love her ) of his time. Now even though our modern cultures have changed in many ways, and nowadays they tend to change faster than ever... evolutionary programming like that does not go away, at least not without another million years of evolution from the point we are at right now. This means that even though TV, music, magazines and movies may disrupt the way that women are attracted to men, it can not pull the "smoke and mirrors" trick on their basic natural instincts. One modern display of this is gold digger women... in my point of view women who do this are doing nothing wrong at all, they are simply following their instinct to find the best possible provider.

Ok, enough of explaining... you should get idea by now, back to the part where I was describing what traits the cave women were looking for in a cave man. When put all together, what do those traits describe...

The man's character... in essence, what type of man he is and who he is. These are things he has earned and were not given to him... so they are displayed to others as a projecting of himself, and clearly outshine anything that is resting on the surface.

Now we come to the only flaw in this theory, and it is the fact that the new world we live in puts so much emphasis on what people look like... at in most cases judge people by it. So what is a guy with not so good natural looks going to do? He can turn his outer appearance into something more powerful than what he was born with... even more powerful than what someone who is better looking than him was born with. How?

I'm glad you asked He can utilize any and everything at his disposal to improve his appearance (lifting, nice clothes, the acne thing, trimmed and near body/facial hair, great hair style, tanned body... and the list goes on). He can do this until he is positive that he looks HIS absolute best... and by doing so he will not only turn his outer appearance into just something that attracts women because it looks good, but he will also be turning his outer appearance into one of those "cave man" traits that I described earlier... because now it is not just something that was given to him, it is something that he earned... and has become a part of his character. Now THAT is attractive.

....DarkCasanova....

The Sex Warm Up

........Love and Sex........

You guys have heard the old saying that women are like ovens, and you have to warm them up. And I've found that HOW you warm them up is 99% of the battle.

Once the kissing starts, always leave her wanting more. Pull away mid-kiss and smile....Tease her like crazy...Kiss her neck, blow on it, and pull away. Reach behind above her neck, pull her hair back, and bite it lightly...Drive her nuts!

Now, (assuming you have her in your room by now), THROW her back against the bed, and jump on top of her! Start off with soft kisses... Then slowly start to go crazy with animal lust! Pulling, kissing, sucking, breathing, etc. Keep this up for a few minutes (she'll be going nuts by now!), and then...

Sloooowwwwww down. Way down. And switch completely into loving caressing mode. Give her nice soft kisses, stroke her hair, look in her eyes, give compliments, kiss her cheeks, neck, shoulders, put her arms around you...

Keep this up for a few minutes.

And then...

Switch back into crazy ANIMAL FRENZY MODE!

This time you mean in! Grab her arms and hold them above her head with one hand while you kiss her passionately. Bite her neck (not to hard, psycho), pull her hair with BOTH hands while your kissing her, breathe hot and heavy on her neck...

She will probably be flooding her jeans by now!

And just when she least expects it, switch back into soft caressing mode. Sit up and have her straddle you while your on your knees. Look deep in her eyes, keep this up for a few...And then...

It's time for my favorite move of all!

Push her back down on the bed...Resume the ANIMALISTIC kissing, then, PICK HER UP so you are both standing up next to the bed, put one hand behind her head and grab her hair, and put your other hand around her waist. What you are doing is creating a cushion here, because now you are going to...

Slam her up against the wall!

Well, not exactly. Your arms are the only thing that will hit the wall, but it makes a loud sound! (Hint: If any part of her hits the wall, your doing something wrong, AND you're a dumbass! Do this one with care, guys...It's all for the effect).

Keep up the animalistic urges. By this time clothes should be coming off. And she should be more turned on then she has ever been in her ENTIRE LIFE!

Toss her back onto the bed, and if she's not tearing your clothes off, or tearing through your drawers looking for a condom, just keep it up this on/off hard/soft process. She will be soon!

Remember, every girl's fantasy is to be RAVAGED by a sexual BEAST like yourself...But not many guys have the balls to actually do it!

This will separate you from anyone else she's ever been with, and she will have to have you right then and there!

Sometimes this process takes 20 minutes, and sometimes it takes 4 hours. Mix of the lengths of time you spend in each state...Don't be predictable.

Also, if she says or does anything you don't like, say, "ok, fine", and IMMEDIATELY roll over and start snoring loudly.

She will quickly change her mind!

Ok, boys, that's it! Grow some balls and try this out!!

....DarkCasanova....

Shit Tests and How to deal with them.

WTF is a SHIT TEST????

A Shit Test refers to something a woman does or says to a man in order to engender a response. If the man supplicates, he fails the shit test. If the man responds in a dominant fashion, he passes the shit test.
"How old are you?" : This came from an older girl (only by 2 years!!). I basically fucked this one by just actually saying my age. However, because I was confident and quite alpha it didnt really matter. I should have busted her balls about being older than me maybe. Other option: get her to guess, never tell her (stay mysterious), whether she is older or younger doesnt matter just stay the prize (ie: make her feel inferior for being either older or younger, whichever applies)

I've just split with my ex boyfriend (or something like this): When this happened to me I just tried to divert her away from this as fast as possible. It could start dropping them out of state way to fast so just plowed right back into another topic. I think really do anything could be better than letting her talk about this. My exact response was taking over the frame and saying basically "Yeah I just split up with a girlfriend too.." then I went into a spiel about freedom and independence and not wanting to be tied down and how exciting it was to live spontaneously.

"I dont think we/I should be doing this": I think if your coming in with a strong frame/alpha attitude you can plow this one completely. I plowed through it once with quite a shy girl on a night where I was feeling particularly confident. I just basically ignored she ever said it and continued gaming, resulted in kiss closure. Other option: just agree in a cheeky/cocky funny way and continue as before.

'hey, i saw this blahblah the other day, buy it for me!'- this one is popular around my area, the way i deal with this : 'hahaha, nice try' + pat on the back

"What are we doing here?".

At the time I said "I don´t know.", definitly the wrong answer.

Possible answers:

-nothing, just kiss her again
-"Well, I think we share a unique moment here"
-"Shhh, don´t ruin the moment"


You don't smoke weed, do you? = What kind of stupid question is that? As if that shit even matters.

What do you do for work? = Bee keeper

"My friend is really lonely tonight can she come?"

"Aww damn, I was about to ask you if (insert a guy's name here) could come along, he's a real drag, his ex just ate his heart. How about it?"

"Is that your real name?"

"Jeez, You need proof of ID to get in everywhere these days." *fumble around your pockets*

"You don't drink do you."

"Only when i'm thristy. Oh! Alcohol. That reminds me..."
"Is my water weight shwoing that much" (this one only works with some girls)
"Can't live with out it."
"Please." [with a "give-me-a-break" attidue and expression]

"You're just trying to get into my pants."

"What are, joking? You're like a size 2, my nuts would be turned into crepes."

"Actually, I'm just trying to get them off you." (Works fabulous... I don't get women)

.....DarkCasanova.....

Grow Some Ballls!!!!

Why do i hear more and more stories of guys crying over a girl?? is it nowadays a must to keep the girl in the relationship??

I personally heard stories of guys calling girls and begging them not to leave them while crying their balls off!!!

I mean seriously guys it's like you have grown but aint got 2 nuts yet!!! it's not that I aint got a heart or am not a guy with emotion but crying just over sumthing stupid is not in my favorite things to do list....

Cryng is normal for everyone, there is a time and place for it. It's not cause your GF is pissed off at you over something and tries to leave you NO it's not even close....

Dont be a Wusssy ( Should call it Pussy)

this also concerns you if you are a "nice guy" who never seems to be able to attract HOT women, or you have attractive female friends who always seem to say, "He's really wonderful, but I just like him as a FRIEND", then this could possibly be the single most important thing you ever read in your entire life.

And I'm not kidding... not even a little.

If I had to sum up the biggest mistake that I see men making with women (and the big mistake that I've made myself too many times to count), it's being a WUSSY.

Being a WUSS comes in two main flavors:

1) Acting like a WUSSY to begin with.

2) Turning INTO a WUSSY as you get to know her.

I would venture to guess that most men either act like WUSSIES with women they're attracted to ALL the time, or they turn into WUSSIES within a few weeks or months of meeting a woman that they REALLY like.

I know, this sounds a little strange, right?

What the heck should being a Wuss have to do with attracting women?

The answer: EVERYTHING.

Have you ever had an attractive female friend who liked to date abusive jerks... and then tell YOU about the abuse she was putting up with... all the while you would have done ANYTHING for a chance to be with her?

Yeah, me too.

That's what I mean it when I say that you can actually make things WORSE by TRYING HARDER when you don't "get" how attraction works.

If I had to sum it all up, and describe the one HUGE mistake that men make with women... the one that causes the most pain and prevents the most success, I'd have to say that it was...

BEING A WUSSY, OR TURNING INTO ONE.

For a lot of reasons, a WUSSY just doesn't make for an interesting, romantic counterpart. Women will SETTLE for a Wuss, or even SETTLE DOWN with one (usually after the Wuss has demonstrated his TOTAL lack of self-respect, and his COMPLETE willingness to put aside all of his own needs for a woman). Unfortunately, this often ends with the woman cheating on the Wuss, leaving him for someone else, taking everything from him (including his self esteem) etc...

I digress...

The point is, a WUSSY doesn't trigger ATTRACTION.

Wussies are BORING. They're needy. They lack ENERGY, act CLINGY, and make women feel TRAPPED and repulsed.

Everything about the WUSS spells "DON'T PICK ME".

Now, the first thing most guys say when they hear this news is, "But I don't want to be a JERK to women" or "I like the idea of being NICE" or "I'm just being MYSELF with women... what's wrong with that?".

I can identify.

I get it.

I spent many years of my life thinking these kinds of things.

Well, the good news is that you don't need to be a "jerk" or treat women badly to attract them. lol...

You just need to:

1) Abandon your Wussy Ways.

2) Learn how ATTRACTION works.

3) Change how you look at relationships.

4) Learn the specific things that you need to do in each situation to meet women and make them feel that wonderful, powerful, magical, elusive emotion called ATTRACTION.

5) Never "slip", or allow yourself to start behaving like a WUSSY as you get to know a woman.

Doesn't sound too hard, right?

Now as an interesting twist am gonna Share a story with you guys whom a female friend described to me

"So I'm dating a nice guy now and it SUCKS. No other way to explain it, it just SUCKS. He's no challenge. He agrees with everything I say. He's got it all though - a decent job, a nice place, no kids, no psycho ex-wives, and he's tall and cute. Anyone ever seen that Friends episode when Alec Baldwin played Phoebe's boyfriend?? YEAH, my boyfriend is THAT nice. He's just too fvcking nice. Nice is boring. I've never heard him raise his voice. He's never aggressive. He has no edge. He won't even drive near speed limit and that fvcking annoys the sh.t out of me, yet I sit at the back and keep my mouth shut… watching everyone whiz by us.

And don't get me started on the sex. Oh, excuse me…making love. After he cums (note I didn't mention anything about ME cumming), he rolls over and says "Oh, that was nice" with a little sigh. I KID YOU NOT, he says it EVERY TIME and then he sighs like he has just woken from a refreshing nap. I finally got so tired of missionary and him looking lovingly into my eyes and smiling as he came, that I threw him down on the couch one night and mounted him. At first he was terrified - yes, TERRIFIED. He thought something had possessed me. And it HAD — it was sheer MADNESS. I fvcked the sh.t out of him that night. And then he sighed and said "Oh, that was nice".

Now that we had the cowgirl position conquered (always with that sigh afterwards), it was time to move on to doggie. His ex-girlfriend never did doggie (hmmm… maybe there's a "nice" ex-girlfriend to blame for his timid niceness?? That bitch…). Anyway, I digress. I tell him I want him to fvck me from behind. Yes, I used the word "fvck" and I didn't care what he thought about it. He gets behind me and enters me, and damned if he didn't say "OH, THIS IS NICE" !!! Are there any 30 y/o men out there that haven't smacked a woman's ass when doing her doggie?? YES, and he's my boyfriend!

its great that you're nice (to an extent),but have some backbone.Don't be a spine donor all your life. When your girl is out of line, say something.Don't let her walk all over you.Occasionally, be a "bad" boy (being bad doesn't translate to abusive or criminal).Say "No" to her sometimes.Raise your voice and be heard. Say something dirty/sexy to her occasionally. Smack her ASS!. Don't ever use the word NICE to describe things, especially sex (okay, that may be a personal pet peeve). Have an interest in at LEAST one sport (or pretend to). Drive 5-10 miles over the speed limit once in awhile.Be aggressive during sex.Grow a goatee for a few weeks. Shave your balls. Stray from your routine and shake things up. Fvck the hell outta her!!!!

BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE… and the women will fall at your feet.

....DarkCasanova....

Happpyyy B DAY!!!

yes It's the second anniversary of my blog.....gotta admit.... not much posts for such a long period of time but hey i got reasons for that too.... (like the police,family, no internet,etc etc)

would like to thank each and every reader out there who enjoys reading this blog and hope to see more readers visit tooo

and yea got like arounjd 5000+ blog hits!! which is ok compared to the amount of posts...

funny thing is despite how most articles are about guys stuff around 80% of the readers are FEMALE!!!! I LOVE U GIRLS !!!!

.....DarkCasanova.....

Fuck Buddy Guidelines (long yet intresting)

Friends with Benifits(FwB) or Fuck buddys as some call it....

everyone got friends with benefits at least at one point of their lives right??? here's a guide for it (yes every things got a "how to do it guide/plan" )

1. Be HONEST about the relationship - to both HER and YOURSELF

The biggest trap that guys fall into with their FwBs is that they do not clearly delineate the relationship... as a result, they either trick the girl or even themselves into eventually believing that the relationship is something "more."

A FwB is someone you have access to and enjoy FUCKING regularly. She is not your girlfriend. She is not your soulmate. She is not even really your friend. She is your FwB... your FUCKbuddy. FUCK her... don't LOVE her.

Now, I'm not saying you can't fall in love with your FwB. Far from it. However, KNOW what you're getting yourself into. If you want this girl to be a GF, then she is NOT your FwB, she is your GIRLFRIEND. But if you just want the girl for SEX, then fully EMBRACE the FwB situation.


2. Don't see her too often.

When I have a FwB, I generally like to see her about once or twice a week. Why you ask? Shouldn't I be fucking her nonstop, getting as much as possible?

Well, that's nice. But it's dangerous. If you want this girl to be your GIRLFRIEND, then yes... hang out with her, spend lots of quality time with her, go on a date with her, sleep over every night, whatever. BUT, if she is your FwB, then you should be seeing her pretty much ONLY for sex. This goes back to being honest with yourself. The more OFTEN you see her, the FASTER she will develop FEELINGS for you... so that is the tradeoff: do you want a consistent once/twice-a-week lay for a longer period of time? Or are you so horny for this ONE girl that you will fuck her and hang out with her and treat her like a true-blue GF, causing her to fall for you FAST?

* Don't sleep over. - I'm serious. Don't sleep over. It's okay to cuddle for a while, but DON'T sleep over. She is not your GF. The only exception is when she is has nowhere else to stay except your place.


3. Bring your A-game at ALL TIMES. Don't "bond." - Once again, if you want her to be your GF, that is another matter. But if she is your true-blue FwB, you must ALWAYS be fucking on your A-game. Be FUN. Be PLAYFUL. Tease her, be cocky, CONSTANTLY ATTRACT HER. The whole REASON she wants you as her FwB is for the SEX and the EXCITEMENT you bring. Don't disappoint. Don't reveal some gay IW side. STAY SHARP.


4. Don't brag about other girls.

So you are popular with the ladies.... So what? Most probably, she can STILL pull just as much dick (if not more) than you can on the same night... BUT she's with you. She's seeing you just for sex, because you are THAT good. Show some respect.

Although she is not your GF, if you want this FwB arrangement to last, then you MUST maintain a relationship of equal respect and power. A FwB relationship INHERENTLY denotes an agreement between individuals of equal power and stature (well, until she develops feelings... in which case, you have much more power/influence) - you are trading sex for sex. Why compare cocks? Just enjoy yourself. Don't pull childish stunts or brag just for the hell of it. Just straight-up enjoy the sex.

If she brags or tries to make you jealous, just LAUGH IT OFF and FUCK HER HARD. Don't brag back. It's just gay.


5. Fuck her WELL. Period!

No excuses for this one. Like I said, you guys have a SEXUAL AGREEMENT. If she is not delivering, DITCH HER. But inversely, you must ALSO deliver. If you suck at sex, GET BETTER. FwBs are there so you guys can go WILD. Experiment with new positions, play out fantasies, try some kinky shit - the POINT of the arrangement is SEX after all.

ALWAYS make sure she's satisfied, even if it means cutting back on your own needs a bit. PLAY with the relationship. DON'T get BORING and PREDICTABLE. Sometimes, when I'm with a FwB, I will be like "Hey... wanna do something cool for 5 min?" Then fuck her for 5 min...... then pull out. Tease her. Have FUN.

6. The clock is TICKING!

It is the cardinal rule that if you keep fucking a girl consistently over a long period of time, she WILL start to develop feelings for you. The only way she won't develop feelings for you is if she falls for some other guy. In the case of the latter, she will probably stop fucking you because she wants to be with this other guy (if he is BF material). In the case of the former, where she starts to fall for YOU.... well, you must make a decision: do you want her as a GF or not?

Understand that either way, your FwB relationship is pretty much OVER. If you reject her feelings, she will not want to fuck you anymore, because she will feel you are a lost cause. It is very possible to drag a few more lays out of her, BUT this usually leads to mad drama and pain for everyone. If she falls in love with you and you DON'T want her as a GF, just tell her "Let's stay friends" and END it smoothly.

FwBs are not super long-term commitments at all. Due to the very nature of women, they are arrangements that CANNOT last over long long periods of time. So ENJOY yourself while you can and make sure SHE doesn't regret the time she was your FwB.


Conclusion:

The ultimate lesson from these guidelines can be applied to any situation, any girl, any relationship: Be HONEST with yourself, KNOW what you want, and GO after it.

Women are not goddesses. They are not magical deities. They are human. They are fragile. They are wonderful. By all means, let them enjoy pleasure... but NOT AT YOUR EXPENSE. Sex should be a MUTUALLY-PLEASURABLE thing.

If what she wants is not what YOU want, then there is no need to proceed further. It will only lead to pain and drama. Just NEXT and move ON. DON'T compromise your desires because you "feel bad." That's not love. That's PITY or SYMPATHY.

Being a man means being confident enough to protect and appreciate the ones you care about. HOWEVER, it also means RESPECTING others enough and having WISDOM enough to WALK AWAY when you foresee a clash of desires/needs.

Be honest. Be strong. Enjoy yourselves
.....DarkCasanova....

Mindset of Seduction

XD

I make no excuses for my desires as a man.
I move through this world without apology.
I like to satisfy women.
I don't need any particular woman, I am not needy. Women are abundant.
I do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive. Rejection is a good thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid.
I learn something every time. Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace.
I do not dwell in the past. The past can not be relived, good or bad.
I have a wide range of options in how I choose to react to other people. The choice is mine.

Attitude – Part 1

Desire

You have to want this more than ANYTHING. If you don't, there's no point in going on.

Confidence/Cockiness/Arrogance

Confidence says – Hey, I'm something pretty special that's worth a close look. I know this based on my preparation, skills, and past successes.

Cockiness says – And I'm so confident, I can walk right up to you and have a good chance at winning you over. Oh, and while I'm a nice guy, I'm not worried about what I say to you or messing up. If you thought the ball was in your court, think again.

Arrogance says – You are inferior, if you don't give in to me, you are an idiot.

Confidence is great. A little cockiness is sometimes attractive. Arrogance is not.

If you present her with a dozen roses and she slams the door in your face, then move on. Guess what? You still have the dozen roses in your hands! Give it to some other fine woman who appreciates it!

Confidence is not something you think about, it is the way you are. It is a state of mind, a character trait. Ideally you feel so good and natural about it that the word "confidence" never pops up in your mind. The only way to develop confidence is to talk to as many HBs as possible, without any intention of trying to "hook up with her". Talk to them, say ‘hi', say ‘are you having fun?', say ‘Hi, are you the sort of person I should get to know better? Yes? Why?'. Then walk away. That WILL build CONFIDENCE.

Alpha Male

The alpha male is dominant. He's not an asshole. He's the guy who chooses women. He's having fun and he's confident. The alpha male isn't a condescending jerk.

Model the alpha male. What are his qualities? To me, an alpha male is:

Qualities of the Alpha Male

Is "The Man"
Hard to please
Unemotional, slightly serious. Gives smiles and laughs as rewards.
Talks slowly, deliberately. Enunciates.
Doesn't ask for things.
Is not afraid that others might not like him. Yet, is likable.
Is busy …
… and ends conversations, dates, etc. They are not ended for him.
Is comfortable hanging with hot women.
outgoing
uninhibited
forward
risk-taking
Motivated to seduce

The alpha male doesn't ask permission. And he doesn't give options.

Persistence

Keep trying. If you give up easy, this isn't for you.

You are moving forward on the path to Fulfillment. The only reason you are moving forward is because you are trying. Mistakes mean nothing in the end! If she rejects you, she has taught you something. There is no failure, only learning.

Try multiple girls, you will get blown out unless you can manage them all while being honest.

persistence = desire = strength
Stalking = neediness = weakness.

Work every day at this!

Patience

Keep trying. There will be plenty of failures. You are pushing past the edge of your comfort zone. You are living 100%, unlike most guys out there who have learned "their place".

Your one n only
......DarkCasanova.....

Posts that u guys might wanna check out!!!

The picture in the post "Magic Love Spells"

Ok since am kinda busy a bit these days here are some posts that u alll might not have read but sure worth reading... here is the best posts of this blog uptodate!!!

A post about my passion in life: magic... "http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2010/07/magicmy-dark-art.html"

My Rules of life!!
"http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2010/03/25-rules-of-wisdom-mafia-style.html"

Magic LoveSpell!!!- A true story!!!
"http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2009/03/magic-love-spells.html"

How to get though Life Guide!!- Very funny one :D
"http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2009/04/how-to-get-through-life-list-for-guys.html"

A Rape story!!!
"http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2009/02/rape-oowarningdo-not-read-this-if-u.html"

Reasons Why kissing is good for you!!!
"http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2009/02/reasons-why-kissing-is-good-for-you.html"

Rules for the GIRLFRIEND!!!
"http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2008/11/rules-for-girlfriend.html"

Chocolate:one of the keys to a girls heart!!!
"http://darkcasanova.blogspot.com/2008/10/here-eat-this-for-guys.html"

Hope you Enjoy
.....DarkCasanova....

Magic....My Dark Art

....My Obsession, My Gift, My Dark Art....

Walking....fast...denim shorts, Ripcurl Maldivian T-Shirt...Adias sneakers... Got heads turning to see me everywhere as I rushed past them quickly... Music blasting full volume on my earphones connected to my pink Samsung phone... Limp Bikit was the music I was feeling, as I walked in the heavy rain, soaking wet... Damn it... I was late...

2 days ago I had Promised my friend that I'l give a magic show cause her lil bro's got circumcised...as I entered the house people shifted their attention from the apparent gay wanna be cross dresser guy who was dancing to the "Waka Waka" song by shakira.. It was pretty hilarious :p... as I watched I noticed a girl enter the house with a guy...

She looked familier... she glancedaround the room and met my gaze... fuck.. it was my ex.. she started to leave but her 'guy-friend" stopped her and made her sit down on one of the chairs... It was pretty awkward... cause the magic show was up next... and man was I flipping out.. yea I know I shounlt have.. but counlt help myself...with a heart going fast as a double bass drum on a cradle of filth live concert, I got up and intro'd myself and started....

Started with a something I knew my ex would hate.. I made some fireballs and tossed them carelessly around in my hands.. onlookers were astonished.. wasent much a big deal to me though... did some scary shit like making stuff float.. and I asked if anyone would care to volunteer for my next trick... the "guy-friend" of my ex steped forward.. by now I guessed he would have known who I was now...

I asked him to keep in his mind a name... and he said ok... and I asked him to hold my left hand.... and to keep thinking about the name.... and I asked him to let go of my hand.... suddenly all was quiet... my ex ran out of the house... the "guy-friend" wet after her with blood on his hand.. and there I stood smiling like a Idiot as everyone gathered around me to look at my hand...

The guy-friend had thought of the one name i knew he was think of...

On the palm of my hand as I looked down at it written in blood was the name of my ex...

and hour latter after i enjoyed my self with the food and the festivities, i left again with my earphones in my ears blasting Eminem's "Superman" on full volume... with my bloody hand bandaged, again in the rain, same as before except this time I was feeling great and happy...

This post is for anyone who got heartbroken...

ps: Never intended to do this for any form of revenge or anything... It was all in the momment.. :)

....DarkCasanova...

Get over Ex-Girlfriend... PART 1

Make her jealous...

First of all, you need to learn when and how to take a break. You need a recuperation period after any romantic entanglement. I call this the recharge period, and it's vitally necessary for many reasons:

- Your self-esteem is in the crapper. That's why you feel the urgency to hurry up and get back out there and meet new girls. You're running a dialog in your head (below your conscious awareness) that makes you believe that since you lost this relationship, you might not get another woman again EVER. It's not true, man. You did it once; you can do it again.

- You really miss her, and that's all the more reason not to rush out into another relationship. You're right, if you had another girl, you wouldn't think of her. Sure, you tell yourself you'd like to just go out and get laid, but the reality is that you will probably end up dating whoever you DO wind up sleeping with and thus turning her into rebound girl. You'll realize you probably settled, and you'll start to feel smothered, and then you'll realize your mistake and wind up hurting some other poor girl.(which in my view is very bad!!!)

Stop the mistake before it's made. This need is created by your falsely lowered self-esteem telling you that you need a replacement girl. What you need is DISTRACTION, not a substitute.

- You can't be a whole man until you learn how to live and be happy without a woman in your life. Period.

Your recuperation starts here and now. Engage your self-discipline and do the following:

- Stop calling her. Yeah, I know you're probably falling victim to that compulsive voice in the back of your head that wants to know 'Is she seeing other people? Do we still have a chance?'

If you stay in contact with her you'll only wind up begging for her to reconsider, then tearful mementos at her doorstep, and further supplication on your part. You'll wind up like one of the guys on "Scrubs," trading your balls for sex. Every time you get the urge to call her, have a substitute activity that gives you an equal amount of pleasure, such as turning on the X-box (I call this X-therapy) or going out for a bike-ride. Turn your pain into your gain.

- Take a few weeks off from women - COMPLETELY. Don't give them a second thought. Don't pressure yourself into picking up or throwing out lines or anything. If you approach a girl now, you'll probably blow it because of all this anxiety you've created for yourself. Take a little while and get your game together.

When you ARE ready for a girl you need to approach her as if she were any other woman. If you build her up to be some kind of Greek Goddess, you'll just be intimidated and spooked on your attempts to talk with her, and you'll also be very unattractive.

Dont be a Desparado-wanna-get-GF

ps:Part 2 is next...

.....DarkCasanova.....

Get Girls to Check YOU Out!!!

Warning: THIS DOSENTMAKE SENSE TO MOST WOMEN.. soo girls This is STRICTLY for GUYS ONLY!!!!

Every man dreams of being the MAN that women try to pick up.

Well, it ain't just a dream. It's real. I've found the key, and now I'm going to unlock it for you. My friend, an expert in Loving Tantra, taught this to men who, well, the kind of men who hear the word "Tantra" and immediately tune out, thinking there's some wacky hippy-dippy sensitive-pony-tailed guy stuff at work. But as soon as they finished this exercise, they went from average guys to MEN who were drawing women's eyes everywhere they went.

What women look for in a man is very simple. They need to see your Power, and Your Vulerability. They need to see your Strength, and your Love. They want to feel, to be blunt, your Hard **** in them(ok this may not be the case f, and your Open Heart on them. And there's an easy way for every women but thinking like this helps) you to start doing it right now.

This exercise is very powerful, and has a magnetic effect on women, so please don't share this with anyone that you suspect is still angry, or bitter, or somehow unable to really Love women. I'm giving this to you because I trust you. Please respect that.

Now. Here is your exercise. Here is your practice. Here is the work that will transform you right now.

Stand up. Close your eyes. Quiet your mind, and focus on your breath. Now, start to feel your body. Don't move, but simple pay attention to every part of your body, one at a time, as if a giant MRI machine was scanning you. Feel it all.

Now move that attention to your crotchatal region. You know the area I'm talking about. Bring your focus... all the way down where your focus usually is when you see a picture of a gorgeous girl. Just feel your body there, and keep breathing. Breathe deep, and breathe slow.

Now inhale. Inhale deep and slow, and as you draw your breath in, let your attention rise up from down low all the way up to the center of your chest. There's a spot just above the zygomatic process, a space right above the center of your chest, where the energy of your heart lives.

Put your attention there, and exhale. Now move your attention back down, and breathe in again, and move your attention back up to your heart.

Imagine you are pulling the very real electricity that keeps your body alive from the very bottom of your spine, up that electrical highway to the center of your chest. Feel how the center of your chest begins to warm. Feel how the muscles between your ribs start to stretch, and even ache. Feel how that spot on your chest start to feel like a space, an opening, a portal from your Heart out into the world.

Keep doing this for just 5 minutes.

Now, open your eyes. You will find that all the annoying thoughts that have been plauging you like busy bees are suddenly just whispers. You will feel IN your body, and out of your head. You will feel that your Hard **** is strong, and your Open Heart is free.

THIS is how you walk through the world. Just go find a place where the kind of girls you like will be. Make yourself comfortable. Stand still, lean against a wall, or just grab a seat. Now with your eyes open or closed, do this exercise again. Every time you see a beautiful girl walk by, breathe in her beauty and let that energy fill you from **** to Heart. Let the feeling of pleasure fill you up. Let it grow and be.

When you do this, you will find that women's eyes start to turn to you. They may stare, they may just look for a second. But they cannot help but look because the electricity you are moving and building is quite literally, scientifically, a magnetic force.

Women will be DRAWN TO YOU.

Women will be ATTRACTED.

Literally. Attracted. Like iron filings to a magnet.

I know you are probably thinking what I thought when I first heard this. It's crazy, and silly, and goofy, and does nothing. I mean, you have to be good-looking and rich and flashy for girls to look, right?

Here's the real-deal.I spent days walking around this city, admiring the variety of sexxxy women here. I was dressed well, I was smiling, I was looking good and feeling confident.

But not a single girl looked my way.

Today I sat at lunch and watched people walk by, and I counted 43 girls, all ages, all races, all sexxxy in their way, looking at ME.

I looked just the same as I did on Thursday. Well, actually, I looked a little worse, cos I'm wearing a ratty shirt and have been sleep-deprived and hungover for days.

But it's not what I looked like that drew them. It's the FEELING I have. It's the power in my body radiating out of my heart.

It's the magnet of my masculine presence.

Do this now, and track your results. Then be sure to let me know what you find.

I already know what's gonna happen, but I can't wait for you to find out. :)

reminder: THIS DOSENTMAKE SENSE TO MOST WOMEN.. soo girls This is STRICTLY for GUYS ONLY!!!! ;)

Be Love and Be Free,
....DarkCasanova....

The Diamond between her legs...

Diamonds for sex? dosent work always...

Whenever a woman gives me a problem about sleeping together I simply tell her:

“The diamond between your legs is not something I want to steal from you… It’s just something I want to get through before we move on more interesting things.”

Girls are afraid to sleep with a guy too fast or too soon, as they will look easy, like sluts. They also grow up in a society that tells them, when they give their pussy to a guy, there is nothing else they can give to him. Society unconsciously puts all value on their sex organs and beauty. Once you cross that point, they feel they have nothing to offer. No more value. She is afraid that, once she gives sex to a man, he won’t come back, as that’s everything she could give him.

Its sad, that whenever you talk with girl, she assumes (thanks to society) you want to sleep with her. I mean, the morning after, you still need to talk, to have fun in your life and you can still enjoy and learn about each other… Its not just about sex.

So think about the sentence above. Take a moment, and think about it.

What you are actually saying to a girl, is exactly what she wants to hear. It’s not about sex, its about you being together, having fun in the long run and sex is just a step along the way that people make a big deal out of…

A big percentage of sexual resistance is exactly this — she’s afraid that’s all you want and there won’t be anything else. So it’s smart to address the issue directly before it becomes a big problem. I prefer to say it directly than to bullshit around it and play games…

“The diamond between your legs is not something I want to steal from you. It’s just something I want to get through before we move on to more interesting things.”

I dare you to use it.

....DarkCasanova....

Straight outa My mind...

feeling emo... shit...

Listening to Eminem's "Not Afraid" track from his latest album.... made me think...

thinking about how my life needs a drastic change... need a new facebook name (current one is creating chaos)

plus need a job...(i quit recently).... which led me to really identify who my real friends are... some were just hanging out with me cause of girls, others for juz coffees, others just cause their miserable lives dint have anything...

I feel Used....

But I cant quit now...

I need to prove myself to myself... and to everyone else.. I know I can go all the way... i just need a push...

need to brush up on my magic performance so that i can have my own show..

need to doo ETC ETC

ill end this with the last lines of the song...

Cause I'm raising the bar, I shoot for the moon
But I'm too busy gazing at stars, I feel amazing and
I'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road....


.....DarkCasanova....

Newton's 1st Law... applied to Seduction....

Cute girl: Stand staring at her or do something about it??

Your Dating Guru wanted to see if there was some circumstance where he simply COULDN'T meet a girl, so he kept his eyes open while driving through town, hoping to catch a cutie in her car. A lovely girl suddenly merged in front of him and turned left. He immediately snapped into "Starsky and Hutch" mode and took off after her, away from his destination.

She went two more streets, then stopped at the next red. He hit the ffront brake of the moter cyke,nearly fell over, jumped off of his ride and ran up to her window. He motioned for her to roll it down, and when she did, he said,

"Excuse me, I just had to tell you that you are the prettiest girl I've seen all day, and there's a law that says I have to tell you that."

She smiled, and he continued,

"Really, I have no choice. It's a federal law."

She introduced herself. He smiled back, and they kept talking and flirting, right there in the street, as the red light turned green.

===

Now comes your turn.

Here's your step-by-step how-to for stopping and dating girls on the move.

Get your pencils out. Ready?

If you're unsure how to stop her, just imagine the following. Imagine you have a car and was on fire, and you needed to stop someone to get help, how would you do it?

Your BODY knows this already. There's no trick to it. Just follow those instincts and experience.

You will have all sorts of questions and doubts and conditions running through your mind, and all sorts of reasons not to do it.

My personal favorite is "I don't have the time right now." So make it simple for yourself. You are taking 30 seconds out of your day to see if this cutie is a good fit for you, no more, no less. You can always afford 30 seconds, right?

And you never know when the best opportunities are going to pass by, so you need to be ready all the time.

If you detect a little more agitation and fear rising up in your gullet than you can handle, try this little trick to get it done.

Let her move away from you. Wait just a second. If it's a store, let her go. If it's a street, let her keep walking.

Wait just long enough that you think you may have lost her, and then…

Chase.

Her.

Down.

Get it in your head that you are on a mission to find and meet this girl. Make her your Girl of the Day, the one you just have to meet no matter what the situation.

This is the kind of sh*t superheros do.

That's you. You should hear crazy theme music pumping as you pursue, knowing that no Dr. Doom, Lex Luthor or Loch Ness Monster can stop you.

The more you have to pursue, the more real it will feel when you finally catch up to her, and the more sincere and confident you will be when you catch up to her and say,

"I know this is a bit random, but I had to meet you."

Now get out there, chase 'er down, and put a smile on some womens face. You may just put a big fat grin on your face in the process.

Still dont get it?

What happened???

Guy see girl. Girl be moving. Guy want stop girl.

Guy stop girl.

Ugh. Words make head hurt.

Yes, it is that caveman simple. But only once you know the approach that gets her stopped, gets her interested, and gets her there with you.

You've heard of Newton's 1st Law. A body in motion tends to stay in motion.

What Newton didn't say was that's even more true when the body in question is a smokin' HOT body!

But there's more to this law. I know. I Googled it to be sure.

A body in motion tends to stay in motion unless acted upon by an unbalanced force.

Guess what? You, mi compadre, are the "unbalanced force."

Isn't that a great frickin' phrase? Just think that to yourself the next time you are just having a blast and someone asks why you're having so much fun.

"I'm just an unbalanced force of nature, babe'!"

OK, back to our physics lesson.

So you now know you can stop her. But how?

When you see a girl that attracts you, make meeting her the the priority of your day. Don't worry about how you are going to stop her, what your body language is like, or any details like that.

Don't be thrown by any excuses (she's on a cell phone, wearing an iPod, walking away down the street). Just make this real — stopping and talking to you for 30 seconds is the most important thing in her day.

You giving her a chance to meet a confident, sexy man is the most important thing in her day. And in yours.

All across the universe, women respond to decisiveness and confidence more than anything else — more than money, looks, fame, or nice cars.

Your Dating Guru
.....DarkCasanova....

The Awkward Momment: Cute girl...what do I say to her...
Once again i apologise fr the delay in updating.. certain problems like no internet, aprob with de police,etc etc have kept my mind of writing... anyways here's a brand new one hope u enjoy....


Hook a woman in with, “I’ve noticed something
interesting about you.” Stop talking and wait for
her to respond with curiosity

Look at a woman’s palm and say, “Hmm, that’s
really interesting.” Put her hand down & don’t tell
her what you see- let her beg you with curiosity
When a woman asks you, “What you do?” have
her try to guess- then tell her that you model
men’s underwear( now we all know how to use humor right?)

Play on a woman’s curiosity- “You know what
they say about women who are blond/brunette/short/tall (just make something up)?
– No? Oh, I can’t tell you here, maybe later”
Use curiosity to make sure a woman shows up
for the next date- promise you’ll tell her a secret
next time you see her

Talk about relationships & rumors with women-
“Did you know Pamela and Tommy are back
together? Do you think J-Lo will stay married
this time?”

Tell stories with moments of intrigue and
surprise to take women on an emotional
journey- and end on a note of laughter

Relationships are what make stories interesting not
what you did. Talk about the people you met
and how you interacted with them

Separate yourself from the other guys- have
three laugh-evoking, interesting stories
memorized and ready to tell women

Don’t quiz a girl by asking her 20 questions(this aint an interview you know).
Share your own experiences and then have her
share hers

Don’t sound monotone & bored in a
conversation- if you talk about something
exciting, sound excited- if something shocking,
sound shocked

Women love to talk about torrid love affairs- read
the tabloids to know what the celebrities are up
to

If you don’t know what to say, ask a woman how
she would spend her holiday if she were filthy
rich without any limitations- let her fantasize

In conversation talk about what you like to eat
and drink. Food talk is like sexual foreplay to
women

If you bring up sexual topics and you feel
awkward or nervous, the girl will too- relax and
the sex talk will flow on its own

Ask a woman you’re dating what makes her feel
sexy. She’ll reveal valuable information on how
to further seduce her

If a woman seems put-off by a sexual question
or story, do not apologize- just make her
comfortable with more light, playful conversation

Don’t agree with everything the woman says just
to agree with her. Women like strong men who
express their own opinions

Good conversation needs relaxed playfulnessthen,
there’s no such thing as a blunder

Drop the fact casually that you read palms in
conversation and the woman will ask YOU to
read her palm

Buy a small digital camera for your back pocket.
Take pics with your dates doing fun things and
show the pics to future girls you meet

Women love animals- make up some funny,
loving stories about your real or imaginary pets

Challenge her to a game of thumb wrestling or
‘rock, scissors, paper’. Yes it’s silly, and girls
love it

Women like the supernatural and unknown- talk
about reiki, reflexology, palm reading, spirits or
ghosts and have a few stories to tell

Don’t ask yes/no questions like “Can I have your
number?” or “Do you like me?” Never put the
power of “no” into a woman’s hands

Avoid the usual boring questions like “What do
you do?”, “How many sisters do you have?”
Think outside the box

Women like stories because stories entertain.
Notice how as a child, you were read STORIES?
Notice how as an adult, you watch TV for
STORIES?

“The Apprentice”, “The Bachelor”, and
“Desperate Housewives” are all about people
interactions- be your own television show

Like a professional comedian, recycle 90% of
your conversational material with every girl,
testing new bits as you go

Engage a woman’s imagination - talk about
travel, the beach, your road trip, spelunking,
skydiving, anyplace outside of her boring reality

Learn to read women’s palms- it’s good for 5
minutes of discussion time and a great way to
touch her hands

Present women with a false choice- “So would
you like to meet me for coffee tomorrow or meet
me at my place on Saturday?”

Don’t talk about what you “do”- that’s boring.
Talk about what you’ve accomplished

Double commands like “Give me your number
and meet me for lunch tomorrow,” can’t be
refused- after all, which would she be refusing?

Fractionate your conversation- one moment be
playful and lighthearted, another show deep
insight, the next a brat. Keep the girl on her toes

Give the girl a self-image to live up to: “Wow,
you’re really fun, creative and spontaneous.”
She’ll want to live up to the good image you
gave her

Ask a group, “So how do you all know each
other?” It gets the girls talking and you find out
which ones are single

When girls are sitting say “I need a female
opinion, but have just a minute” Sit down with
them and they’ll be cool- then just anyway

When a girl says something you like, say “That’s
so cool!” then high-five her. She’ll bond with you
right on the spot

If you’re talking to a girl and a second girl enters
the set, tell the first “Introduce me to your friend”
so that you don’t become the third wheel

Ask a girl whether you should floss before you
brush or brush before you floss and have a
playful debate about it

Never ask a girl “Do you like me?” That’s just
lame. Assume she likes you and she will
because of your confidence

Conversation is as much about the vibe you
project as the words themselves- relax, be
playful, and have fun no matter what happens

Talk about clothes and fashion- tell the girl what
you find stylish and point out what you like about
her clothes

As a brain teaser, have a girl tell you how many
9s are in 100 (by the way, the answer is 20-
figure it out!)

Covertly build yourself into the girl’s future- “Just
imagine six months from now when we’re
walking along the beach…”

To tell a story effectively, involve your entire
body in expressing the emotion- wave your
hands and gesture your arms to emphasize words

If the girl is insulting to you, don’t get angry,
defend your ego, or call the girl names. Have the
power to walk away relaxed and leave her dry

If you hit an awkward silence, playfully tell the
girl with a smile, “I hate you” Watch how the
silence vanishes

When you see a group of girls tell them, “So
which one of you is the coolest?” The girl who
responds first, read her palm as a reward

simple yet effective

....DarkCasanova....