Grow Some Ballls!!!!

Why do i hear more and more stories of guys crying over a girl?? is it nowadays a must to keep the girl in the relationship??

I personally heard stories of guys calling girls and begging them not to leave them while crying their balls off!!!

I mean seriously guys it's like you have grown but aint got 2 nuts yet!!! it's not that I aint got a heart or am not a guy with emotion but crying just over sumthing stupid is not in my favorite things to do list....

Cryng is normal for everyone, there is a time and place for it. It's not cause your GF is pissed off at you over something and tries to leave you NO it's not even close....

Dont be a Wusssy ( Should call it Pussy)

this also concerns you if you are a "nice guy" who never seems to be able to attract HOT women, or you have attractive female friends who always seem to say, "He's really wonderful, but I just like him as a FRIEND", then this could possibly be the single most important thing you ever read in your entire life.

And I'm not kidding... not even a little.

If I had to sum up the biggest mistake that I see men making with women (and the big mistake that I've made myself too many times to count), it's being a WUSSY.

Being a WUSS comes in two main flavors:

1) Acting like a WUSSY to begin with.

2) Turning INTO a WUSSY as you get to know her.

I would venture to guess that most men either act like WUSSIES with women they're attracted to ALL the time, or they turn into WUSSIES within a few weeks or months of meeting a woman that they REALLY like.

I know, this sounds a little strange, right?

What the heck should being a Wuss have to do with attracting women?

The answer: EVERYTHING.

Have you ever had an attractive female friend who liked to date abusive jerks... and then tell YOU about the abuse she was putting up with... all the while you would have done ANYTHING for a chance to be with her?

Yeah, me too.

That's what I mean it when I say that you can actually make things WORSE by TRYING HARDER when you don't "get" how attraction works.

If I had to sum it all up, and describe the one HUGE mistake that men make with women... the one that causes the most pain and prevents the most success, I'd have to say that it was...

BEING A WUSSY, OR TURNING INTO ONE.

For a lot of reasons, a WUSSY just doesn't make for an interesting, romantic counterpart. Women will SETTLE for a Wuss, or even SETTLE DOWN with one (usually after the Wuss has demonstrated his TOTAL lack of self-respect, and his COMPLETE willingness to put aside all of his own needs for a woman). Unfortunately, this often ends with the woman cheating on the Wuss, leaving him for someone else, taking everything from him (including his self esteem) etc...

I digress...

The point is, a WUSSY doesn't trigger ATTRACTION.

Wussies are BORING. They're needy. They lack ENERGY, act CLINGY, and make women feel TRAPPED and repulsed.

Everything about the WUSS spells "DON'T PICK ME".

Now, the first thing most guys say when they hear this news is, "But I don't want to be a JERK to women" or "I like the idea of being NICE" or "I'm just being MYSELF with women... what's wrong with that?".

I can identify.

I get it.

I spent many years of my life thinking these kinds of things.

Well, the good news is that you don't need to be a "jerk" or treat women badly to attract them. lol...

You just need to:

1) Abandon your Wussy Ways.

2) Learn how ATTRACTION works.

3) Change how you look at relationships.

4) Learn the specific things that you need to do in each situation to meet women and make them feel that wonderful, powerful, magical, elusive emotion called ATTRACTION.

5) Never "slip", or allow yourself to start behaving like a WUSSY as you get to know a woman.

Doesn't sound too hard, right?

Now as an interesting twist am gonna Share a story with you guys whom a female friend described to me

"So I'm dating a nice guy now and it SUCKS. No other way to explain it, it just SUCKS. He's no challenge. He agrees with everything I say. He's got it all though - a decent job, a nice place, no kids, no psycho ex-wives, and he's tall and cute. Anyone ever seen that Friends episode when Alec Baldwin played Phoebe's boyfriend?? YEAH, my boyfriend is THAT nice. He's just too fvcking nice. Nice is boring. I've never heard him raise his voice. He's never aggressive. He has no edge. He won't even drive near speed limit and that fvcking annoys the sh.t out of me, yet I sit at the back and keep my mouth shut… watching everyone whiz by us.

And don't get me started on the sex. Oh, excuse me…making love. After he cums (note I didn't mention anything about ME cumming), he rolls over and says "Oh, that was nice" with a little sigh. I KID YOU NOT, he says it EVERY TIME and then he sighs like he has just woken from a refreshing nap. I finally got so tired of missionary and him looking lovingly into my eyes and smiling as he came, that I threw him down on the couch one night and mounted him. At first he was terrified - yes, TERRIFIED. He thought something had possessed me. And it HAD — it was sheer MADNESS. I fvcked the sh.t out of him that night. And then he sighed and said "Oh, that was nice".

Now that we had the cowgirl position conquered (always with that sigh afterwards), it was time to move on to doggie. His ex-girlfriend never did doggie (hmmm… maybe there's a "nice" ex-girlfriend to blame for his timid niceness?? That bitch…). Anyway, I digress. I tell him I want him to fvck me from behind. Yes, I used the word "fvck" and I didn't care what he thought about it. He gets behind me and enters me, and damned if he didn't say "OH, THIS IS NICE" !!! Are there any 30 y/o men out there that haven't smacked a woman's ass when doing her doggie?? YES, and he's my boyfriend!

its great that you're nice (to an extent),but have some backbone.Don't be a spine donor all your life. When your girl is out of line, say something.Don't let her walk all over you.Occasionally, be a "bad" boy (being bad doesn't translate to abusive or criminal).Say "No" to her sometimes.Raise your voice and be heard. Say something dirty/sexy to her occasionally. Smack her ASS!. Don't ever use the word NICE to describe things, especially sex (okay, that may be a personal pet peeve). Have an interest in at LEAST one sport (or pretend to). Drive 5-10 miles over the speed limit once in awhile.Be aggressive during sex.Grow a goatee for a few weeks. Shave your balls. Stray from your routine and shake things up. Fvck the hell outta her!!!!

BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE… and the women will fall at your feet.

....DarkCasanova....

Happpyyy B DAY!!!

yes It's the second anniversary of my blog.....gotta admit.... not much posts for such a long period of time but hey i got reasons for that too.... (like the police,family, no internet,etc etc)

would like to thank each and every reader out there who enjoys reading this blog and hope to see more readers visit tooo

and yea got like arounjd 5000+ blog hits!! which is ok compared to the amount of posts...

funny thing is despite how most articles are about guys stuff around 80% of the readers are FEMALE!!!! I LOVE U GIRLS !!!!

.....DarkCasanova.....