Sick...../home work for de girls :)

yes people... am sick..your loyal dating advice giving guy is sick...this is tortally not like me..i am like dont ever get sick..maybe one a year or sumthin...eyes are red with water coming outa them non stop..looks like i am crying..which is wierd cause i cant remebr the last time i cried...very confusing...to top it all that i got tons of stuff to do and meetings to attend wiht me being a vice prez of an ngo and ith the work on the magazine which me gonna relase with a couple of friends... life's busy...but this stupid cold like sickness have no place in my schedule...anyways..GOT SUM HOMEWORK for u gals....(damn my writing also.."ACHOOOOOOS" sux...)

Homework:cheer DarkCasanova outta his sicknes..

LOL well it's not that hard really...to cheer me up anything would doo..like for example send a e card or sumthin..i know u gals are very creative in stuff liek that...
And i'll be posting the best "cheer me up" thingy here on my blog..i'll give a couple of tips..

1*If u wanna send sumthin juz send it to my personal mail addy: karallica@hotmail.com

2*i love bright colours..

3*sweet n simple means a lot...

4*dont send a love note plz..

5*love yummy food(this one's not nessasary but who knows..:P )

ps:wish i had a shweet gf to take care of me "snif snif...AHCHOOOS"...excuse me...

with lotsa love n hugs
........DarkCasanova.......

Nice Guys or Bad Boys..u decide...part 1

First, I'm going to ask you to consider something, then I'm going to give you some homework.(yes sum freakin homework if u ever wanna get good with women).before i go on.. I'm here thinking..y do i even bother with this?I mean most readers of this blog are female and here I am giving advice to guys on them LOL..(girls do comment on this point ok)...:D

OK!!!

This time is all about ACTION!

Here's the thing I want you to consider first:

I was reading an article on AOL titled "What's Wrong With Nice Guys?"... here's a little quote from the article:

"...Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones? This notion sounds an awful lot like the irritating good-girl/bad-girl distinction that men continue to make. Still, it does contain a nugget of sense. Since women truly are conditioned to be "good girls," sometimes we feel uncomfortable with or guilty about that pure burning "I must have him!" feeling. That's why we sometimes seek out a bad boy to serve as the object of these desires, says Cleveland psychotherapist Belleruth Naparstek, creator of the Health Journeys series of guided imagery tapes. "In order for the deliciousness of pure lust to be 'okay,' it has to be for the symbolic bad boy who has nothing to do with the rest of your life. With him, you can crank up your animal impulses, worry-free," she says...."

Interesting, isn't it?

Now, I personally disagree with the idea that women "seek out" Bad Boys because they need somewhere to "project their guilty lust"... and I disagree with the idea that there's something "wrong" with the fact that women are attracted to Bad Boys...

But the point is that the "mainstream" psychology and behavior world is starting to accept the idea that women are ATTRACTED to "Bad Boys".

It will probably be another ten years before anyone with a degree puts two and two together and says, "Hey, maybe women feel ATTRACTION towards Bad Boys for natural, evolutionary reasons, and that's why Bad Boys are considered "sexy"...

Hell, maybe I should say it... Oh wait, I already did..

Whatever.

Point is, there's something to the idea that woman don't feel that powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for "nice" guys who chase after them and kiss up to them

Women do, on the other hand, feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION for BAD BOYS.

Of course, I don't believe that you MUST be a jerk, or abuse women in order to make them feel attracted to you. There's a much better way...

OK...now for THE HOMEWORK...

I want you to do the following with the next 5 women that you talk to over the next few days... (these should be women that you would be interested in dating!!!):

1) Smile all the time.

2) Be very nice, cordial, and friendly. Use no sarcasm, and don't tease.

3) Act as if you really "like" the woman you're talking to... and as if you're "interested" in her.

4) Give her lots of compliments.

5) Optional: Politely say, "You probably have a boyfriend, right? Can I take you out sometime?"

Pay careful attention, and notice how the women respond to you.

Now, I want you to try something different with the NEXT 5 women you talk to...

1) Don't smile very often.

2) Pretend that you've known her for 20 years, and that you're TOO comfortable around her. Tease her for something that no one teases her about... like the way she dresses, etc.(like Kindergarden hehe)

3) Pretend that she's interested in YOU, and has been pursuing YOU, and that you're resisting her. Make jokes about it and say things like, "I just don't think things are going to work out between us".

4) Give her NO compliments of any kind. If she gives you any say, "That's a cheesy pick up line. Can't you think of something more original?"

5) Optional: Say, "Hey, do you have email? Good. Write it down here..."

...and pay attention to the difference.

If you really "play it up", you'll notice a HUGE difference between the first five women you talk to and the next five.

During the first set of five, when you're being a "Nice Wuss", you'll see the looks on the women's faces that say, "Oh no. Another guy who "likes" me. How can I get rid of him politely?..."

During the SECOND set of five, you'll see the women opening their mouths with the "half smile, half oh-no-you-didn't-just-say-that" look. You'll feel a TENSION in the air. You'll notice that some of the women will actually look at you as if they can't believe what they're hearing.

If you're particularly sharp and funny, you might just have one or two of them say, "I like you... we have to hang out sometime" within the first few minutes of the conversation. By the way, you will NEVER hear that when you're playing the "Nice Wuss".

(SIDE NOTE: I once went out with some friends and while taking pictures of them, I overheard this girl talking to her friend. I took what she and her friend were talking about and I teased her about it... And within no more than 60 seconds the girl was saying, "Ohmygod, I like you! We need to hang out sometime..." - Really.)

Do your homework! And have FUN while you're at it...:P

Get her sences activated with scents 1

first of all there will be a second part to this post...will be realeased soon(am trying hard not to give too much..cause it's like giving dynamyte to children u know lol)ok..well here it is...


One area that guys don't take advantage of enough is the power of smell with a woman. Scents and smells are very important to them, and it's been scientifically proven that women are much more sensitive than men to odors.

One of the most important reasons scents are good for engaging a woman's attraction for you is that your sense of smell is connected to the most basic part of your brain, the part that was formed long before your ability to reason and think. This was because our early ancestors had to be able to react quickly to scents on the wind that could indicate a threat, such as a predator.

Smells have a way of bringing back memories. Have you ever had the experience of smelling something and having a complete flashback to something you remember from your childhood? It happens all the time, and it's even more potent when you've associated a smell with something, like the smell of burning leaves in autumn, or the smell of homemade pizza. These smells evoke a state in us that pulls us back to the experiences we had with that smell.

I've walked into old houses before, ones that were humid and smelled of old bread and tea, and I had these flashes of walking into a ancient house(u know house made from those coral rocks n stuff) and the same odors there. It's a little freaky how real it feels at times.

The way you use this with a woman is to find out what scents she indulges in when she wants to relax, or get passionate. I find that getting her into a candle store, or a bath-and-bodyworks type store(island spirit?) is the best way. You get her to smell different things, and notice what she prefers. Vanilla is usually a good scent that you can almost bet she'll like.

Scents for women can usually be broken up into two categories: musks and floral. Musky scents are like heavy perfumes, like Obsession. Floral scents are the ones that are, obviously, more like flowers. If she wears any kind of perfume, you can tell which she prefers by smelling what she's wearing.

Take care with your choice of cologne. One tactic is to find out what cologne her dad used to wear and use that, but I find this strategy highly variable in terms of the response you'll get. Better to choose the cologne that she remarks on and likes. Make it a point to put on too little rather than too much. You want her trying to get closer to you, not running and gagging from the smell. Have her give you a critique. "Hey, I just got this new cologne, but I'm not sure if I like it. Tell me what you think." And she'll have to lean in close to you to get a whiff. If she likes it, she'll be back for more.Axe is one good one...atleast their ads are :P
(And don't go cheap on your cologne. It's worth it.)

Hot spots
The best spots to apply cologne are the areas of your body that produce the most body heat. Body heat "activates" the cologne, increasing the strength of the smell and making it last as long as possible... while colder areas of your body tend to dull the smell and make it disappear more rapidly. To achieve maximum results when wearing cologne, apply it to the following body parts : Wrists, neck, arm pits, and behind the ears. When using a cologne spray, do NOT spray behind your ears, spray it onto your hands and wipe it on... the last thing you want is to smell like you took a bath in your cologne. Another added bonus of putting cologne behind your ears is the fact that when you are somewhere with loud music/noice girls tend to talk into your ear so you can hear them... and when they do they will get a nice gentle whiff of your scent.

When you can get her sense of smell engaged, you are taking a shortcut to a part of her mind that responds in an almost primal way. She can't reason or rationalize with it. You can get her in a state of your own choosing by choosing the right scent.

ps: Vanilla lotion works like a charm.. :)

Something different....

oK!! normally i dont do this ..

i mean putting lyrics on my blog..

anyways this one is dedicated to that special girl i am bound to meet one day..

dont know she she is where she is or anything...

an also to all the female readers of this blog.. thanx for the wonderful comments :) n u know we all should meet up sumtime for a coffee or sumthin dho...

the one n only
DarkCasanova :P

I never felt nothing in the world like this before
Now I'm missing you
and I'm wishing you would come back through my door
Why did you have to go
You could have let me know
So now I'm all alone

Girl you could have stayed but you wouldn't give me a chance
With you not around it's a little bit more than I can stand
And all my tears they, keep running down my face
Why did you turn away

Interlude:
So why does your pride make you run and hide
Are you that afraid of me
But I know it's a lie what you keep inside
This is not how you want it to be

Chorus:
So baby I will wait for you
Cause I don't know what else I can do
Don't tell me I ran out of time
If it takes the rest of my life

Baby I will wait for you
If you think I fine it just ain't true
I really need you in my life
No matter what I have to do
I'll wait for you

Been a long time since you called me (How could you forget about me)
You gotta be feeling crazy (Crazy)
How can you walk away (When)
Everything stays the same (The Same)
I just can't do it baby

What will it take to make you come back
Girl I told you what it is and it just ain't like that
Why can't you look at me
You're still in love with me
Don't leave me crying

Baby why can't we just, just start all over again
Get it back to the way it was
If you give me a chance
I can love you right
But you're telling me it won't be enough

Chorus:
So baby I will wait for you
Cause I don't know what else I can do
Don't tell me I ran out of time
If it takes the rest of my life

Baby I will wait for you
If you think I fine it just ain't true
I really need you in my life
No matter what I have to do
I'll wait for you

Interlude:
So why does your pride make you run and hide
Are you that afraid of me
But I know it's a lie
What you're keeping inside
That is not how you want it to be

Baby I will wait for you
Baby I will wait for you
If it's the last thing I do

Chorus:
Baby I will wait for you
Cause I don't know what else I can do
Don't tell me I ran out of time
If it takes the rest of my life

Baby I will wait for you
If you think I fine it just ain't true
I really need you in my life
No matter what I have to do
I'll wait for you
I'll be waiting

hope u like it...cutz

n yea more dating n relationship stuffs coming ur way.....

Being a Rockstar ...ROCKS!!!!

First of all, you are the shit.

You take care of you're appearance, just like any other rockstar.

You're not intimidated by others, they're intimidated by you.

You treat everyone around you as a fan. They're lucky if they get to meet you.

Girls are just part of your rockstar lifestyle. You don't let them get in the way of your achievements.(Unless she is de one :))

You're calm, confident, and aren't afraid to get what you want in life.

now now.. before all of u send those swheet lovly comments..this is all a mindset :)

Works ok for sum guys..it gives like an arrogent a$$h0le kinda feel like personality..

PS:Am not a rockstar but am a magicion :)..

Goodbye to a bad year n hi how u doin to a new year :P

lats year sucked...well atleast for me yea.. it sucked..big time!!! juuz a few good times i can rember like the saff championship n mdp wining the presidential race...

i dont know....but hey life goes on

New year resolutions for me for 2009

*Do a magic show(yes people am a magiction)

*Became a better person(ofcause am nearly perfect but hey still a bit more for improvement)

*Have a steady relationship more than one month( yes!!! no kidding about this one..any girl reding this tell me pulz..y does girls nowadays juz want sex i mean comon cant we juz hug...im not juz a sausage with feet u know..i got feelins too...)

*cant think of one rite now...minds kinda blank but will add up as i think of stuff