AIDS Day .....

AIDS day is coming up.. me as usual helping da community n bein g a part of it....am an offical in it.. but we still need more volounters... the more people the better... So if u guys are intrested juz let me know n be a part of the stuff which we are doin on AIDS day.. btw me am a volounter at YHC..(Youth Health Cafe)..everyone is welcome to come even now to help put.. we'r having a futsal tonument from 1st to 6th dec...n there'll be like facepainting,free AIDS testing,futsal tonument ofcause n loads of people there to clebrate the evnt n take part in a huge event soo dont miss it guys n gals... n yep.. like i said before anyone who wanna help out be part of this . let me know :)

and ofcause more dating stuff will be coming ur way people :P.. juz alil busy with stuff....

Rules for the Girlfriend

Here are some things that guys wished every girl knew. I did not write this and I wish i could remember where I found it. If you can think of more rules that your girlfriend should have put it down.

1. If you think you are fat, you probably are. Do not ask us. We refuse to answer.

2. Learn to work the toilet seat. If it’s up, put it down.

3. Do not cut your hair. Ever. Long hair is always more attractive than short hair. One of the big reasons guys fear getting married is that married women always cut their hair, and by then, you are stuck with her.

4. Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not quests to see if we can find the perfect present yet again!

5. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to; expect an answer you do not want to hear.

6. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.

7. Crying is blackmail.

8. Your ex-boyfriend is an idiot.

9. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work. Strong hints do not work. Obvious hints do not work. Just say it!

10. No, we do not know what day it is. We never will. Mark anniversaries on a calendar.

11. Most guys own three pairs of shoes-what makes you think we’d be any good at choosing which pair, out of thirty, would look good with your dress?

12. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

13. Check your oil.

14. Do not fake it. We would rather be ineffective than deceived.

15. It is neither in your best interest nor ours to take the quiz together.

16. No, it does not matter which quiz.

17. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after 7 days.

18. If you won’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t expect us to act like soap opera guys.

19. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

20. Let us ogle. We are going to look anyway; it is genetic.

21. Don’t rub the lamp if you don’t want the genie to come out.

22. You can either ask us to do something OR tell us how you want it done-not both.

23. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

24. Christopher Columbus did not need directions, and neither do we.

25. Women wearing Wonderbras and low-cut blouses lose their right to complain about having their boobs stared at.

26. More women should wear Wonderbras and low-cut blouses.

27. The relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months we were going out.

28. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like windows default settings. Peach is a fruit, not a color.

29. Pumpkin is also a fruit.

30. If it itches, it will be scratched.

31. If it is OUR house, I do not understand why MY stuff gets thrown in the closet/attic/basement.

32. We are not mind readers and we never will be. Our lack of mind-reading ability is not proof of how little we care about you.

33. If we ask what is wrong and you say “nothing,” we will act like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

34. If we hear from an old girlfriend, we will briefly fantasize about having sex with her. But do not worry; the fantasy includes you AND her, together.

35. when we ask stuff puleez give staight answers.... reallyy it wont hurt us..

36.what the hell is doily?

How to tell(know) she is intrested...

First of all IM BACK!!! yes..been busy with a lil sumthin called life...tell ya the whole story laties ok..here is a new one for u all...

OK, I have a quick trick question for you.

That's right, I said a quick TRICK question.

How can you tell if a woman is interested in you?

Answer quickly.

So what gives?

Why am I asking you a trick question?

Simple.

Because I'm trying to make you THINK.

I'm sure that u might have seen or read a couple of dating tips stuff that says stuff like:

"If she tilts her head to one side and strokesher neck, that's a sign of interest..."

"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion,that means she's interested in you..."

"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact, and touches you often, then she likes you..."

DUH!

I remember when I first read all this stuff.

I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must have been missing these hints because I didn't know to look for them. Now I'll know when a woman is interested in me...".

Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...

The problem is that women display these MAJOR INTEREST signals in about 1 of 1,000 interactions with men...

And there was one BIG problem...

That problem was that none of the damn dating tips I read said a single thing about how to MAKE women give you these signals.

In other words, what I realized is that average guys like me who don't get "approached" by women need to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, more importantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION in women so they GAVE me these signals in the FIRST PLACE.

So let me share with you some dating tips on how to MAKE women feel ATTRACTION for you... and then I'll share some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tell if a woman is interested.

And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT different than the ones you read in your flirting books,magazines or even the know it all buddyy guy who talks the talk but cant walk the walk lol.

OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends, and it's time to meet some interesting women.

You look around, and none of the hot young babes in there seem to be tilting their heads to one side, looking you in the eye, and licking their lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING.

What do most guys do in this situation?

Either:

1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...

2) Something typical, like ask a girl to give the number, or if he can take her on a typical date or juz the plain old maldivian style of saying that she is cute or beutiful.

If you're guilty of doing these, raise your hand.

Then take your raised hand, and slap yourself silly. Not too hard. But silly.(dont sue me ok..i know this is the other maldives but jeez gimme a break hhehe)

Here's a thought for you...

If you put 100 guys in a party with one beautiful women sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of the guys "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over to that woman and do something to make that woman feel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say thatif you're LUCKY, one of them will claim that he can do it.

In other words, for most guys, the idea of walking up to a girl they don't know and doing something that will TRIGGER an attraction is completely outside of their universe.

This is one of the reasons why guys do things like asking girls to be thier "friend',stalking them , etc.

Now, something you must understand when it comes to women and ATTRACTION is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.(thats rite wussies?got a problem with that?ouch...)

ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.

It isn't logical (at least, on the surface).

But once you start to "get it", everything changes. Your entire perspective changes once you "get it", and your results change instantly as well.

So here's a dating tip for you to try:

MESS WITH WOMEN.

That's right "mess with" them.

Tease.

Bust on.

Be difficult.

Why?

Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:

1) You could care less what she thinks of you.

2) You're a fun person.

3) You're unpredictable.

4) You're a bit of a "wild card"

5) You GET IT.

Now, you might be shaking your head right now and saying "That's doesn't make any sense. Why would a woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her instead of being nice?".

That's a good question.

But for now, take the hand that you slapped yourself with earlier, and slap yourself again.

Good.

I want you to STOP following your "be nice and kiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman, and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.

Make fun of something.

Go to hand her something, then pull it away at the last second.

Shake your head in despair and tell her that she's screwing up her chances with you.

Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn around and walk away before she can respond to your face.

Can ya feel me, dude?

Now the good stuff... HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED

Well this is what you were looking for, so here it is...

I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula for knowing whether or not a woman is interested in you.

Here it is:

1) You engage her.

2) She engages you back.

Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough that I can finish. You can clap later.

I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but stay with me here.

If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks me how many are in my party, and I answer with "Well, there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke, then IT'S ON!

If I'm standing in a party, and the woman next to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey, watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least a foot of room..." in a serious tone of voice... and she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me then back again playfully, then IT'S ON!

If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine rack, and I ask her "What's with that huge purse of yours? You got a cat in there or something?" and she starts laughing and making excuses, then IT'S ON!

In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:

1) Stop looking around for signals from women that they're "interested" in you.

2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is interested in you.3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that IT'S ON!

As long as you use how she's responding to what YOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCH easier time spotting the "she wants me" clues...

...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.

Now...

...if u want more help u know where to find..it's rite here..

Stop beating your head against the wall, and start taking advantage of learning this stuff.

You'll be SO glad you did.

And I'll talk to you again soon.