To Give A Hickey Or Not Give A Hickey.....

Alrite...phew after I had to spend over an hour getting my ex to stop being mad at me over something I had done in a dream she had,I decided to block her for all of eternity...I knew its time... time to update again..so here goes

Once upon a time there lived darkey and..ahh forget it hehe lets get to the topic shall we?

Angel:hey i saw a red mark on my neck near the collorbone…did u give that

Darkey:yea hehe maybe soo ;)

Angel:lol

thats a small part of a phone call i got from my gf Angel.. now i knew about the red marks and stuff..but dint know how to exactly give it..anyways latter about 2 days latter today to be exact..lol i counlt give her a red mark…it was a bit frustrating at first..soo angel showed me how… and by the ned of the day there were many marks given to her from me…it was like my own signature on my gf..hehe what better way to say that she is mine ….anyways i did a lil research and found out a bit more about them… here are the details below

What Is a Hickey?
A hickey is actually broken blood vessels beneath the skin. It’s sort of like a bruise, if you got hit with a baseball and the impact broke the blood vessels. But instead of being caused by a foul ball, it’s caused by the other person’s mouth.

How Do You Give a Hickey?
What you do is put your mouth against the side of their neck, in a kissing shape. You leave your mouth slightly open in the middle, like you’re saying the letter “O”. Now you suck in! You suck the skin into your mouth, in essence hurting it, and causing the blood vessels to break. This turns that circular area bright red. It doesn’t take long, maybe 30 seconds.

If you really aren’t good at suction, you can nibble with your teeth. But that is really a last resort, because now you’re not giving them a hickey. Now you’re just gnawing their skin to make it red.

Yes, giving a hickey hurts the person you’re doing it to. You’re breaking their blood vessels! But to some, a hickey is a temporary mark of love. Sort of like a red tattoo that fades naturally after a few days. It says “This girl (or guy) trusted me enough to let me damage their throat, one of the most sensitive parts of the human body”.

Who Gives a hickey, the Boy or the Girl?
That’s like asking who kisses who! Hickeys aren’t a male or female thing. They’re an “I was Here!” thing, sort of like a mark of pride. So either the girl or the guy can give it to each other. It’s sort of a primitive way of saying “This boy is mine!” or “This girl belongs to me!”

Where does the Hickey Go?
Hickeys are marks of possession, so most people put them on the neck where they’re nice and visible. Also, a hickey is caused by lips breaking blood vessels and that’s easy to do on the sensitive neck. It’s less easy to do, say, on the sole of someone’s foot. Plus, nobody would see it there. Sure, you could put a hickey on someone’s upper inner thigh, but unless they were wearing a swimsuit, nobody would see it. You might as well draw a smily face with magic marker :)

How Long does a Hickey Last?
A hickey is a bruise. Just like any other bruise you get on your body, it will fade when your body heals. There’s no set rate. Some people heal quickly, some people heal slowly. It all depends on your own body. You must have been bruised before in your life! So you know how long bruises tend to last …

How do I Hide my Hickey?
A hickey is put there to show up! It’s a mark of I-Was-Here. Why else did you get a hickey on your neck? But let’s assume that some wild hickey attacker got to you and now you have to hide the evidence. Again, it’s a bruise. It won’t just vanish with warm water or cold water or lukewarm water. You can get make-up concealer and try that, to cover it while it fades away naturally. Wear turtlenecks or scarves. If you tend to be a really slow healer, take vitamins and eat healthy food so your body has half a chance of healing up well. Stand in dark corners :)

more to come

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