Magic....My Dark Art

....My Obsession, My Gift, My Dark Art....

Walking....fast...denim shorts, Ripcurl Maldivian T-Shirt...Adias sneakers... Got heads turning to see me everywhere as I rushed past them quickly... Music blasting full volume on my earphones connected to my pink Samsung phone... Limp Bikit was the music I was feeling, as I walked in the heavy rain, soaking wet... Damn it... I was late...

2 days ago I had Promised my friend that I'l give a magic show cause her lil bro's got circumcised...as I entered the house people shifted their attention from the apparent gay wanna be cross dresser guy who was dancing to the "Waka Waka" song by shakira.. It was pretty hilarious :p... as I watched I noticed a girl enter the house with a guy...

She looked familier... she glancedaround the room and met my gaze... fuck.. it was my ex.. she started to leave but her 'guy-friend" stopped her and made her sit down on one of the chairs... It was pretty awkward... cause the magic show was up next... and man was I flipping out.. yea I know I shounlt have.. but counlt help myself...with a heart going fast as a double bass drum on a cradle of filth live concert, I got up and intro'd myself and started....

Started with a something I knew my ex would hate.. I made some fireballs and tossed them carelessly around in my hands.. onlookers were astonished.. wasent much a big deal to me though... did some scary shit like making stuff float.. and I asked if anyone would care to volunteer for my next trick... the "guy-friend" of my ex steped forward.. by now I guessed he would have known who I was now...

I asked him to keep in his mind a name... and he said ok... and I asked him to hold my left hand.... and to keep thinking about the name.... and I asked him to let go of my hand.... suddenly all was quiet... my ex ran out of the house... the "guy-friend" wet after her with blood on his hand.. and there I stood smiling like a Idiot as everyone gathered around me to look at my hand...

The guy-friend had thought of the one name i knew he was think of...

On the palm of my hand as I looked down at it written in blood was the name of my ex...

and hour latter after i enjoyed my self with the food and the festivities, i left again with my earphones in my ears blasting Eminem's "Superman" on full volume... with my bloody hand bandaged, again in the rain, same as before except this time I was feeling great and happy...

This post is for anyone who got heartbroken...

ps: Never intended to do this for any form of revenge or anything... It was all in the momment.. :)

....DarkCasanova...

Get over Ex-Girlfriend... PART 1

Make her jealous...

First of all, you need to learn when and how to take a break. You need a recuperation period after any romantic entanglement. I call this the recharge period, and it's vitally necessary for many reasons:

- Your self-esteem is in the crapper. That's why you feel the urgency to hurry up and get back out there and meet new girls. You're running a dialog in your head (below your conscious awareness) that makes you believe that since you lost this relationship, you might not get another woman again EVER. It's not true, man. You did it once; you can do it again.

- You really miss her, and that's all the more reason not to rush out into another relationship. You're right, if you had another girl, you wouldn't think of her. Sure, you tell yourself you'd like to just go out and get laid, but the reality is that you will probably end up dating whoever you DO wind up sleeping with and thus turning her into rebound girl. You'll realize you probably settled, and you'll start to feel smothered, and then you'll realize your mistake and wind up hurting some other poor girl.(which in my view is very bad!!!)

Stop the mistake before it's made. This need is created by your falsely lowered self-esteem telling you that you need a replacement girl. What you need is DISTRACTION, not a substitute.

- You can't be a whole man until you learn how to live and be happy without a woman in your life. Period.

Your recuperation starts here and now. Engage your self-discipline and do the following:

- Stop calling her. Yeah, I know you're probably falling victim to that compulsive voice in the back of your head that wants to know 'Is she seeing other people? Do we still have a chance?'

If you stay in contact with her you'll only wind up begging for her to reconsider, then tearful mementos at her doorstep, and further supplication on your part. You'll wind up like one of the guys on "Scrubs," trading your balls for sex. Every time you get the urge to call her, have a substitute activity that gives you an equal amount of pleasure, such as turning on the X-box (I call this X-therapy) or going out for a bike-ride. Turn your pain into your gain.

- Take a few weeks off from women - COMPLETELY. Don't give them a second thought. Don't pressure yourself into picking up or throwing out lines or anything. If you approach a girl now, you'll probably blow it because of all this anxiety you've created for yourself. Take a little while and get your game together.

When you ARE ready for a girl you need to approach her as if she were any other woman. If you build her up to be some kind of Greek Goddess, you'll just be intimidated and spooked on your attempts to talk with her, and you'll also be very unattractive.

Dont be a Desparado-wanna-get-GF

ps:Part 2 is next...

.....DarkCasanova.....

Get Girls to Check YOU Out!!!

Warning: THIS DOSENTMAKE SENSE TO MOST WOMEN.. soo girls This is STRICTLY for GUYS ONLY!!!!

Every man dreams of being the MAN that women try to pick up.

Well, it ain't just a dream. It's real. I've found the key, and now I'm going to unlock it for you. My friend, an expert in Loving Tantra, taught this to men who, well, the kind of men who hear the word "Tantra" and immediately tune out, thinking there's some wacky hippy-dippy sensitive-pony-tailed guy stuff at work. But as soon as they finished this exercise, they went from average guys to MEN who were drawing women's eyes everywhere they went.

What women look for in a man is very simple. They need to see your Power, and Your Vulerability. They need to see your Strength, and your Love. They want to feel, to be blunt, your Hard **** in them(ok this may not be the case f, and your Open Heart on them. And there's an easy way for every women but thinking like this helps) you to start doing it right now.

This exercise is very powerful, and has a magnetic effect on women, so please don't share this with anyone that you suspect is still angry, or bitter, or somehow unable to really Love women. I'm giving this to you because I trust you. Please respect that.

Now. Here is your exercise. Here is your practice. Here is the work that will transform you right now.

Stand up. Close your eyes. Quiet your mind, and focus on your breath. Now, start to feel your body. Don't move, but simple pay attention to every part of your body, one at a time, as if a giant MRI machine was scanning you. Feel it all.

Now move that attention to your crotchatal region. You know the area I'm talking about. Bring your focus... all the way down where your focus usually is when you see a picture of a gorgeous girl. Just feel your body there, and keep breathing. Breathe deep, and breathe slow.

Now inhale. Inhale deep and slow, and as you draw your breath in, let your attention rise up from down low all the way up to the center of your chest. There's a spot just above the zygomatic process, a space right above the center of your chest, where the energy of your heart lives.

Put your attention there, and exhale. Now move your attention back down, and breathe in again, and move your attention back up to your heart.

Imagine you are pulling the very real electricity that keeps your body alive from the very bottom of your spine, up that electrical highway to the center of your chest. Feel how the center of your chest begins to warm. Feel how the muscles between your ribs start to stretch, and even ache. Feel how that spot on your chest start to feel like a space, an opening, a portal from your Heart out into the world.

Keep doing this for just 5 minutes.

Now, open your eyes. You will find that all the annoying thoughts that have been plauging you like busy bees are suddenly just whispers. You will feel IN your body, and out of your head. You will feel that your Hard **** is strong, and your Open Heart is free.

THIS is how you walk through the world. Just go find a place where the kind of girls you like will be. Make yourself comfortable. Stand still, lean against a wall, or just grab a seat. Now with your eyes open or closed, do this exercise again. Every time you see a beautiful girl walk by, breathe in her beauty and let that energy fill you from **** to Heart. Let the feeling of pleasure fill you up. Let it grow and be.

When you do this, you will find that women's eyes start to turn to you. They may stare, they may just look for a second. But they cannot help but look because the electricity you are moving and building is quite literally, scientifically, a magnetic force.

Women will be DRAWN TO YOU.

Women will be ATTRACTED.

Literally. Attracted. Like iron filings to a magnet.

I know you are probably thinking what I thought when I first heard this. It's crazy, and silly, and goofy, and does nothing. I mean, you have to be good-looking and rich and flashy for girls to look, right?

Here's the real-deal.I spent days walking around this city, admiring the variety of sexxxy women here. I was dressed well, I was smiling, I was looking good and feeling confident.

But not a single girl looked my way.

Today I sat at lunch and watched people walk by, and I counted 43 girls, all ages, all races, all sexxxy in their way, looking at ME.

I looked just the same as I did on Thursday. Well, actually, I looked a little worse, cos I'm wearing a ratty shirt and have been sleep-deprived and hungover for days.

But it's not what I looked like that drew them. It's the FEELING I have. It's the power in my body radiating out of my heart.

It's the magnet of my masculine presence.

Do this now, and track your results. Then be sure to let me know what you find.

I already know what's gonna happen, but I can't wait for you to find out. :)

reminder: THIS DOSENTMAKE SENSE TO MOST WOMEN.. soo girls This is STRICTLY for GUYS ONLY!!!! ;)

Be Love and Be Free,
....DarkCasanova....

The Diamond between her legs...

Diamonds for sex? dosent work always...

Whenever a woman gives me a problem about sleeping together I simply tell her:

“The diamond between your legs is not something I want to steal from you… It’s just something I want to get through before we move on more interesting things.”

Girls are afraid to sleep with a guy too fast or too soon, as they will look easy, like sluts. They also grow up in a society that tells them, when they give their pussy to a guy, there is nothing else they can give to him. Society unconsciously puts all value on their sex organs and beauty. Once you cross that point, they feel they have nothing to offer. No more value. She is afraid that, once she gives sex to a man, he won’t come back, as that’s everything she could give him.

Its sad, that whenever you talk with girl, she assumes (thanks to society) you want to sleep with her. I mean, the morning after, you still need to talk, to have fun in your life and you can still enjoy and learn about each other… Its not just about sex.

So think about the sentence above. Take a moment, and think about it.

What you are actually saying to a girl, is exactly what she wants to hear. It’s not about sex, its about you being together, having fun in the long run and sex is just a step along the way that people make a big deal out of…

A big percentage of sexual resistance is exactly this — she’s afraid that’s all you want and there won’t be anything else. So it’s smart to address the issue directly before it becomes a big problem. I prefer to say it directly than to bullshit around it and play games…

“The diamond between your legs is not something I want to steal from you. It’s just something I want to get through before we move on to more interesting things.”

I dare you to use it.

....DarkCasanova....

Straight outa My mind...

feeling emo... shit...

Listening to Eminem's "Not Afraid" track from his latest album.... made me think...

thinking about how my life needs a drastic change... need a new facebook name (current one is creating chaos)

plus need a job...(i quit recently).... which led me to really identify who my real friends are... some were just hanging out with me cause of girls, others for juz coffees, others just cause their miserable lives dint have anything...

I feel Used....

But I cant quit now...

I need to prove myself to myself... and to everyone else.. I know I can go all the way... i just need a push...

need to brush up on my magic performance so that i can have my own show..

need to doo ETC ETC

ill end this with the last lines of the song...

Cause I'm raising the bar, I shoot for the moon
But I'm too busy gazing at stars, I feel amazing and
I'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road....


.....DarkCasanova....

Newton's 1st Law... applied to Seduction....

Cute girl: Stand staring at her or do something about it??

Your Dating Guru wanted to see if there was some circumstance where he simply COULDN'T meet a girl, so he kept his eyes open while driving through town, hoping to catch a cutie in her car. A lovely girl suddenly merged in front of him and turned left. He immediately snapped into "Starsky and Hutch" mode and took off after her, away from his destination.

She went two more streets, then stopped at the next red. He hit the ffront brake of the moter cyke,nearly fell over, jumped off of his ride and ran up to her window. He motioned for her to roll it down, and when she did, he said,

"Excuse me, I just had to tell you that you are the prettiest girl I've seen all day, and there's a law that says I have to tell you that."

She smiled, and he continued,

"Really, I have no choice. It's a federal law."

She introduced herself. He smiled back, and they kept talking and flirting, right there in the street, as the red light turned green.

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Now comes your turn.

Here's your step-by-step how-to for stopping and dating girls on the move.

Get your pencils out. Ready?

If you're unsure how to stop her, just imagine the following. Imagine you have a car and was on fire, and you needed to stop someone to get help, how would you do it?

Your BODY knows this already. There's no trick to it. Just follow those instincts and experience.

You will have all sorts of questions and doubts and conditions running through your mind, and all sorts of reasons not to do it.

My personal favorite is "I don't have the time right now." So make it simple for yourself. You are taking 30 seconds out of your day to see if this cutie is a good fit for you, no more, no less. You can always afford 30 seconds, right?

And you never know when the best opportunities are going to pass by, so you need to be ready all the time.

If you detect a little more agitation and fear rising up in your gullet than you can handle, try this little trick to get it done.

Let her move away from you. Wait just a second. If it's a store, let her go. If it's a street, let her keep walking.

Wait just long enough that you think you may have lost her, and then…

Chase.

Her.

Down.

Get it in your head that you are on a mission to find and meet this girl. Make her your Girl of the Day, the one you just have to meet no matter what the situation.

This is the kind of sh*t superheros do.

That's you. You should hear crazy theme music pumping as you pursue, knowing that no Dr. Doom, Lex Luthor or Loch Ness Monster can stop you.

The more you have to pursue, the more real it will feel when you finally catch up to her, and the more sincere and confident you will be when you catch up to her and say,

"I know this is a bit random, but I had to meet you."

Now get out there, chase 'er down, and put a smile on some womens face. You may just put a big fat grin on your face in the process.

Still dont get it?

What happened???

Guy see girl. Girl be moving. Guy want stop girl.

Guy stop girl.

Ugh. Words make head hurt.

Yes, it is that caveman simple. But only once you know the approach that gets her stopped, gets her interested, and gets her there with you.

You've heard of Newton's 1st Law. A body in motion tends to stay in motion.

What Newton didn't say was that's even more true when the body in question is a smokin' HOT body!

But there's more to this law. I know. I Googled it to be sure.

A body in motion tends to stay in motion unless acted upon by an unbalanced force.

Guess what? You, mi compadre, are the "unbalanced force."

Isn't that a great frickin' phrase? Just think that to yourself the next time you are just having a blast and someone asks why you're having so much fun.

"I'm just an unbalanced force of nature, babe'!"

OK, back to our physics lesson.

So you now know you can stop her. But how?

When you see a girl that attracts you, make meeting her the the priority of your day. Don't worry about how you are going to stop her, what your body language is like, or any details like that.

Don't be thrown by any excuses (she's on a cell phone, wearing an iPod, walking away down the street). Just make this real — stopping and talking to you for 30 seconds is the most important thing in her day.

You giving her a chance to meet a confident, sexy man is the most important thing in her day. And in yours.

All across the universe, women respond to decisiveness and confidence more than anything else — more than money, looks, fame, or nice cars.

Your Dating Guru
.....DarkCasanova....